caregiver stress

Four Ways to Combat Caregiver Stress

Four Ways to Combat Caregiver Stress

We can better understand stressors when we track our trigger points: common triggers are limited downtime, emotional or physical exhaustion, lack of sleep, and lack of support. Once a caregiver has a better understanding of what is causing the stress, he or she can customize a plan to relieve it.

What is Respite Care?

What is Respite Care?

Home care agencies like ours are here to serve seniors, but we're equally dedicated to supporting their family members. This is called respite care, a home care service which provides temporary breaks for family caregivers.

Suggestions for Coping with Caregiver Stress

Suggestions for Coping with Caregiver Stress

 Stress Awareness Month has been recognized every April since 1992.  Learning to cope with our stress and finding healthy ways to deal with our circumstances can help augment our lives' positive outcomes; this year more than ever, decreasing our stress is essential!  

Gratitude for Good Health in Five Ways

Gratitude for Good Health in Five Ways

     There is a proven link between improved health and mood because of a gratitude practice, especially in older adults. Give yourself, and others, the gift of gratitude this holiday season! Here are five ways to incorporate more gratitude into our lives:

Support for Caregivers of Loved Ones Living with Alzheimer's Disease

Support for Caregivers of Loved Ones Living with Alzheimer's Disease

June is Alzheimer’s and Brain Awareness month. As we pay tribute to our loved ones impacted by cognitive issues, At Home Senior Care advocates that we should also be thinking of the family caregivers caring for these loved ones.

November is National Family Caregivers Month

November is National Family Caregivers Month

November is laden with grateful thoughts as Thanksgiving serves as a reminder that there is always something to be thankful for. Some dispatches come to mind quickly: our family and loved ones, tasty meals, autumn skies, loyal pets, to name a few, but there's another category that deserves our attention yet often gets unintentionally overlooked when listing blessings in one's life. This is the family caregiver.

Family Caregiver Support

     Did you know that about 1 in 3 adults serves as an informal caregiver to another adult, like an aging parent or disabled relative? Here are some other noteworthy facts from Caregiver.org about family caregivers:

• About 43.5 million people offer unpaid caregiving in the US

• About 15.7 million caregivers are helping someone with a memory illness

• About 75% of caregivers are females

• About 57% of caregivers perform clinical tasks

• The average caregiver is 49 years old

• Family caregivers spend 24.4 hours caregiving a week on average

• 40% of caregivers are in high-burden situations 

     Do you fit into these statistics? You balance your workday with check-ins on your elder Mom or Dad who live nearby, or you stop in every Saturday to help your neighbor manage his medications. There may be wounds on a loved one that need dressing, lawns that need mowing, and meals that require preparation. Although many family caregivers find the opportunity to care for a loved one a privilege, it can also be demanding. Over time, financial difficulties, limited personal free time, and lack of other caregiving options for a loved one can lead to caregiver burnout. Here are some tips on how to cope effectively:    

-Ask for and accept help because even if only temporary, there may be others in your care circle willing to assist with tasks.

 -Set realistic goals by considering saying “no” to extra requests and demands.

 - Connect with others through support groups or friends who listen and understand.                       

 -Make yourself a priority by ensuring you get enough sleep, exercise, and self-care.  Don’t take short cuts on your health and wellness needs.

This article was written through our partnership with Clear Care.

Important Steps to Resolving Caregiver Stress

     Caregivers have hearts as big as the moon, as filled with compassion as the ocean of its water. When we are in our groove, nothing can stop up from being our best selves, but the truth is something always eventually stops us- at least for a little while. 

     Caregivers arrive at this “Wit’s End” when they are stressed. Sometimes we see it coming a mile away; other times, it suddenly overcomes us leaving us to feel vulnerable, exhausted, and oh so guilty that we now must invest time taking care of ourselves rather than those we serve. It is difficult for caregivers to put their health first, but without doing so, we become run down faster than a second grader’s pencil point, and in that grumpy, stressed-out state, how are we to help those to whom we provide care?

     We can better understand stressors when we track our trigger points. With the world’s current situation, the coronavirus pandemic-and the many snarls of problems it has created- is a leading cause of stress among caregivers. Other common triggers are limited downtime, emotional or physical exhaustion, lack of sleep, and lack of support. Once a caregiver has a better understanding of what is causing the stress, he or she can customize a plan to relieve it. The following are some coping strategies to help in dealing with stress.

Get a support system in place. Talk therapy is important, so is physical support. Nurses, care managers, physicians, clergy, friends and family members can offer assistance in both these areas. People care about you- let them help!  

Focus on what you can do, not what you cannot. We can only do so much. Trust that you are giving your senior loved one your 100% and that you are thoughtful about every decision and action you are doing on their behalf. No one can be a “perfect” caregiver but believe that you are doing the best you can.  

Get sleep. Get exercise.  It’s easy to say but harder to accomplish.  Make sleep a priority, and if you have trouble falling asleep, develop a calming bedtime routine, or consider talking to your physician.  Exercise in a way that will be consistent for you. Schedule a morning walk each day, or sign up for a virtual yoga class. Dance in your living room, move a rake across your yard- do any exercise that you enjoy, and that gets your body moving. 

Don’t lose your identity.  If you love movies but haven’t watched one in months, commit to viewing a flick this weekend. If you once were a social butterfly, but are now a hermit, reach out to your friends and set up a way to meet online. Blow the dust off your camera and snap a few photos, or finish that sewing project you abandoned. Make a point of taking time to be YOU.

If you are alone in your caregiving journey and looking for support, At Home Senior Care can help.  Call us at 802.768.8595.